Woe to the world because of
the things that cause people to sin.
—Matthew 18:7
St. Bernard of Clairvaux resolved that his actions must pass three tests:
- Is it lawful? Can I do it and not sin?
- Is it becoming in me as a Christian? Can I do it and not damage my influence?
- Is it expedient? Can I do it and not harm my weaker brother?
Jesus said it would be better for a person to be dropped into the sea with a millstone hung around their neck than to be the cause of a child’s ruin.
He said there will always be temptation to sin, but woe to the person who is the source of that temptation (Mt 18:6–7).
Willful sin is dishonorable. Leading others to sin doubles the damage.
One of the most significant things in your life
is the impact it has on the lives of others.